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“Sissy Maids” – Have I a dichotomy?

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It has been noted that of the six people I have dibs on in one way or another, four enjoy and frequently are Cross-dressed / Transvested.

It has been pointed out to me that as I state very unequivacably “NO Sissy Maids” on my profile, that surely this is a little bit of a dichotomy, and why on earth would I say that, when I have four actively TV/CD boys.

So, just to make things clearer, this has been My personal definition of “Sissy Maid”: Someone whom I would have to “force” to dress as a Female Maidservant (Normally French and Frilly, with the highest of high heels, seamed stockings, make-up, wig and an elaborate dressing ritual to get them that way), and then expects “harsh punishisment” of their usually exceedingly bad cleaning skills…

(So typical a case in point can be seen just here in fact.)

I’ve met and played a couple of SissyMaids in my time, and, just like the “Do-me!” masochist, they are a huge drain on my (or any other Mistress’) time, energy and resources.

My boys dress up because they love to do so, they enjoy it, the role it gives them, and I don’t have to “force” them into anything… TV or CD is a natural and wholesome thing for them, intergral to their personality and psyche, and not something “dirty” or “guilt ridden” that I have to “force” them into doing.

And I like it like that. Very simple really.

What do I want?

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I want your devotion and attention. I want your thoughts and I want them to be focused on me and my needs, wants and desires.

I want you to have no expectations at all about what I “should” give you… As you are the submissive, it is not at all about you.

I want you to be happy with my whims and the fact that SM is a facet of what I offer, not the Be all and end all. My stable are not often “played with” if they are serving me at Home… If I don’t feel like it, I’m not going to do it, and being at home is about making my life easier domestically, not about feeding their SM needs and exhausting my energies…

This isn’t to say that Bondage and SM won’t happen, but I usually save that for Club outings, unless a treat for one of them is my whim for that evening.

I don’t usually have sex with my stable either… Would you still be prepared to serve a Mistress that almost certainly will never touch your cock except to tease you if feeling vindictive or playful? In my presence, even your orgasm is my whim, and quite frankly, most of the time I’d rather not expend energy to make a mess to have you lick up…

However, I am looking for a fucktoi, as I’ve advertised, and you may fit that bill… However, you may not. Don’t be disappointed if I don’t fancy you, as if I like you as a person, I will almost certainly consider you for the stable anyway, and I’m a hugely tactile person.

Does that answer your questions?

PS I also want someone else to do my washing up! 😉